Confucius said: “Do not worry that others do not understand you; worry instead about your own lack of ability.”
Today is Valentine’s Day, and my perspective is this: “Do not worry that others do not love you; worry instead that you are not good enough. Logically speaking, the better you become, the higher the probability that others will love you.”
Aligning with the Confucian principle of prioritizing internal competence over external recognition, I propose a Logic-First approach to intimacy: Do not fret over the absence of external affection; focus instead on the optimization of your own ‘Dimensionality.’ In the marketplace of human connection, love is an emergent property of high value. Logically, as you ascend in quality, the probability of high-frequency attraction scales toward inevitability.
By framing love as a “probability,” you treat it as a calculation. If $X$ (Your Quality) increases, $P(L)$ (The Probability of Love) must logically follow. This removes the “victimhood” often found in modern romance and replaces it with Strategic Agency.
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